Maximising your vital connections!

Your network is your net worth. Every day, we encounter different people with unique personalities in various aspects of life, and the age-old saying “No man is an island” remains ever relevant. Equally true is the fact that no one is entirely self-made—every successful person has been shaped by God and influenced by others.

To cultivate and sustain meaningful, long-lasting friendships, you must embody the following three qualities in abundance:

Be friendly. Show genuine interest in others. Develop an inviting personality that attracts people to you. Always be courteous.

Be amiable. Create an atmosphere where people feel comfortable around you.

Be willing to contribute to your friendships. True fulfilment comes from giving, not just receiving. Each of us is designed to be a solution to someone else’s needs. Avoid a consumer mindset; instead, focus on adding value to others.

Essential Laws for Building Valuable Friendships

To maintain strong, valuable relationships, you must understand and live by certain principles. Here are a few:

The Law of Honesty. Let truthfulness govern your life. Rid yourself of dishonesty and build strong character. Some mistakenly believe dishonesty is a form of cleverness, but it is akin to laying eggs from which scorpions will hatch!

The Law of Appreciation. Learn to appreciate the vital connections in your life. No matter how flawed someone may seem, there is always something good in them—acknowledge it. When you appreciate people, they are motivated to become even better.

The Law of Forgiveness. Cultivate a forgiving heart. Be quick to apologise, even when you believe you have done no wrong. Forgive promptly and refrain from constantly reminding others of their mistakes. If you must offer criticism, wrap it in appreciation. If all you see in people are faults, perhaps your perspective needs adjustment.

The Law of Communication. Communication is the lifeblood of any relationship. Keep in touch—if they don’t call, you call them. Thanks to technology, staying connected with friends, loved ones, and colleagues has never been easier.

The Law of Love. The golden rule urges us to love our neighbours as ourselves. Let this love reflect in your words, thoughts, and body language. Avoid harsh or brutal words, as they can crush someone’s spirit and shatter their confidence.

Cherish Your Connections

A true friend wants the best for you and encourages you to reach your full potential. Some people are divinely placed in your life to help you achieve your dreams and attain greatness. While some connections last only for a season, others remain for a lifetime. Learn to recognise those whom destiny has placed in your path. Treasure these relationships—do not work against them or cause harm.

See you at the top!

Much love.

Sharoneez Emephia